Are you feeling the temperature drop around? Winter is coming, but parents who will give birth to a Cancer do not need to worry, as the child born between June 21st and July 22nd – date that varies according to the year – will arrive with a warm hug to warm the whole family.
Because they are ruled by the Water element, children of this sign tend to be attached to their parents and very emotionally intense. More than that, it is possible to notice an even closer relationship between the little one and the mother.
“The sign of Cancer is ruled by the Moon, which in astrology is a symbol of the sacred feminine and also of our maternal aspect. This makes the Cancerian have a greater attachment to the mother, as if it were an identification, even though he is a boy”, explains the astróloga Vivi Pettersen.
And this is where the Cancerian’s main strengths come in. Due to the intense connection with the people he loves, he tends to want to protect them at all costs and, both in childhood and adolescence, to form “small families” wherever he goes.
Intuition it also enters the list of qualities of the son of Cancer, capable of capturing the atmosphere of places and knowing if he feels comfortable or not in each space. “I usually joke that these children are like ‘sponges’ that absorb the energy of the environment”, comments the astrologer. That’s why they don’t usually go easily with all the adults”, she adds.
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While emotional intensity brings loved ones together, it can be harmful to the Cancerian who doesn’t work through his hurts and bad feelings. “Its main weakness is the issue of resentment. They can be, from early childhood, children who end up harboring emotions that are not cool for a long time and who can use emotional blackmail to get what they want”, points out Vivi.
In this sense, the main tip for parents is that work the children’s emotions from an early age, encouraging them to speak what they feel and welcoming this intense side. “Caregivers must be a safe haven for this child, because the natives of Agua are generally afraid of judgment, they do not express themselves fully because they think they are bothering them”, advises the astrologer.
Even though the family is a priority for the little ones, the specialist emphasizes the importance of cancer patients conducting relationships with balance and care, so that they do not put the needs of others in front of them and so that they reach adulthood in a psychologically lighter way. talking.